However, it seems they didn't really get the point of that book and also sometimes they seem to contradict themselves.For example, they say that dating is for mature people, who ar I really liked this book. However, I do disagree with some of this book arguments.It creates support for the person as she struggles and fails.It brings reality to her, so that she can change directions and try new ways of solving her problems.""In a mature relationship, romantic idealization waxes and wanes through the connection at various times.
You don’t need to be in a romantic relationship with someone to grow up!
‘I kissed dating goodbye’ point is: if you are not ready yet to make a long term commitment to someone, then don’t think about dating or going into a romantic relationship. Focus on building your future, yourself, be supportive to everyone around you, caring, and love all people.
And when you are ready to make a commitment then consider getting to know someone well, perhaps by starting a friendship with him and then when are you more aware of him and his character, then you can start thinking of dating (courtship) that person.
If many of your dating experiences have been difficult, Boundaries in Dating could revolutionize the way you handle relationships.
Even if you’re doing well, the insights you’ll gain from this much-needed book can help you fine-tune or even completely readjust important areas of your dating life.