Spend time with this person and glean all the wisdom you can.
Again, it was Solomon who said, “He who walks with the wise grows wise” (Proverbs ).
There's a guys study booklet and a girl's study booklet so that you can go through them with your boyfriend or on your own!
Maybe you want a solid, Godly relationship but you're feeling a little discouraged.
The dating culture is just so crazy and it seems like all the good ones are taken! It seems like more people hang out in the land of “it's complicated” instead of in clarity.
But remember not to turn him into you emotional punching bag.
A guy won't always know what to say and won't always handle it right. Go to God, call your mom, or ask a friend, just don't dump it all on one guy.